Sunday, September 7, 2025

The Boy She Couldn’t Keep, The Love She Couldn’t Find

Amina was only eighteen, but she already knew the weight of attention. Her phone never stopped buzzing, her social media overflowed with compliments, and boys always found reasons to be around her. She loved the thrill — the late-night chats, the laughter, the feeling of being wanted.

Yet among all the noise, there was Victor.

Victor was different. He wasn’t the loudest or the flashiest, but he was steady. His love was not in words alone; it was in the way he carried her bag after class, the way he noticed when she was quiet, the way he encouraged her dreams when even she doubted them.

One afternoon, as they sat under a tree on campus, Victor spoke softly, “Amina, you know I don’t need much. Just… don’t shut me out. That’s all I ask.”

She smiled faintly, scrolling through her phone. “Victor, you worry too much. I’ve just had a lot on my mind.”

But what was on her mind wasn’t school or family. It was the other boys — the ones who called her “queen,” who sent late-night love songs, who knew how to touch her hand in ways that made her heart race. They gave her butterflies, while Victor gave her peace. And she didn’t know which one she truly wanted.

The cycle continued. Victor would wait for her calls, only to see her online with someone else. He would plan quiet evenings, only for her to cancel with excuses. And when he tried to talk about it, she would sigh, fold her arms, and say, “So now you don’t trust me? After all I’ve been through, you think I’d just throw it away?”

Guilt pressed on him every time. He would apologize, even though he was the one hurting.

The Breaking Point

One evening, after seeing her tagged in photos with another guy, he finally asked, “Amina, do you even want me here?”

Her eyes softened, and for a moment, guilt flickered across her face. “Victor, don’t talk like that. You know I care about you… I just… I’m confused sometimes. Please don’t leave me.”

And just like that, his anger melted. He stayed — because deep down, he believed in who she could become, not just who she was.

But love cannot survive where it is constantly wounded.

One Saturday, Victor walked into a cafĂ© to surprise Amina — only to find her sitting in a corner booth, holding hands with another guy. They were laughing, eyes locked in a way he had longed for. His heart sank.

For a moment, Amina froze when she saw him. Then, with quick wit, she stood up and stammered, “Victor, this is not what it looks like. We were just—”

“Don’t,” he said quietly, his voice steady but heavy. “Don’t make me feel crazy for what I see with my own eyes.”

Tears welled in her eyes. “Victor, please… I don’t want to lose you.”

The Choice

For the first time, Victor didn’t bend. “Amina,” he said, looking straight at her, “you don’t want me to go, but you never choose to stay with me either. I’ve given you love, respect, and patience… but you’ve given me wounds. Love isn’t something you keep on a shelf while you play with everything else.”

She reached for his hand, but he pulled it back gently.

“I deserve to be someone’s first choice,” he said firmly. “Not their safe option.”

With that, he turned and walked away, leaving her standing in silence — not angry, not shouting, just finally free.

The Consequence

Weeks passed, and the boys who had once showered Amina with attention began to fade. The compliments slowed, the late-night chats turned dry, and the thrill wore off. She realized that none of them had truly cared.

One evening, she sat on her bed scrolling through her phone, but for the first time, it felt empty. She opened Victor’s old messages — long paragraphs of encouragement, little notes of love — and tears filled her eyes.

She whispered into the silence, “I had real love… and I let it slip away.”

But by then, Victor had moved on. Not to spite her, but to heal. He had chosen peace over pain, and for once, he chose himself.

Moral of the Story

Love is not meant to be a backup plan. If you don’t honor the one who loves you, time will come when you look back — and realize you lost what no one else could ever give.

Friday, January 31, 2025

Day 31: Commissioned for Leadership

 Day 31: Commissioned for LeadershipMatthew 28:18-20, Proverbs 19:21

  • Writeup: Embrace the Great Commission as a leadership mandate. Lead others to Christ and fulfill God’s mission.
  • Complementary Reading: Courageous Leadership by Bill Hybels.

Thursday, January 30, 2025

Day 30: Jesus: The Ultimate Leade

 Day 30: Jesus: The Ultimate LeaderJohn 13:12-17, Proverbs 18:10

  • Writeup: Jesus’ life models servant leadership. Follow His example to lead with love and humility.
  • Complementary Reading: Lead Like Jesus Revisited by Ken Blanchard

Wednesday, January 29, 2025

Day 29: Leadership and Legacy | Living a life of Godly Impact and Creativity | HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO KAY DANIELS

 




Week 5: Leadership and Legacy

Day 29: Leaving a Godly Legacy
Bible Reading: 2 Timothy 4:6-8; Proverbs 13:22

Meditation:

A godly legacy is more than material wealth—it is the transfer of values, principles, and faith that shape future generations. Paul, in 2 Timothy 4:6-8, reflects on his life with the confidence of having fought the good fight and finished his course, leaving behind an example of unwavering commitment to God. Proverbs 13:22 reinforces this, stating that a good person leaves an inheritance—not just for their children, but for generations to come.

Legacy-conscious leaders live with eternity in mind. Their actions today are intentionally designed to impact tomorrow. Leaving a godly legacy requires:

  1. Faithfulness in Service: Like Paul, strive to fulfill your calling with diligence, knowing that your impact transcends the present.
  2. Intentional Mentorship: Invest in the spiritual, emotional, and intellectual development of others, creating successors who will carry on the vision.
  3. Living by Example: Actions speak louder than words. Demonstrate integrity, humility, and a love for God that inspires others to follow.

Your legacy is the ripple effect of your life. It will either uplift and inspire or be forgotten in insignificance. Choose to live and lead in a way that brings glory to God and paves the way for others to walk in His purpose.

Complementary Readings:

  1. Dr. David Oyedepo – Success Systems: Learn how a godly mindset and commitment to biblical principles create enduring success that inspires future generations.
  2. Dr. Mike Murdock – The Law of Recognition: Murdock reveals how recognizing divine opportunities and relationships shapes a legacy of purpose and impact.
  3. Dr. Myles Munroe – Purpose and Power of Leadership: Munroe emphasizes that leadership is about influence, and leaders leave their greatest legacy by empowering others to live purposefully.
  4. Olukayode Daniel – Leadership Unleashed, Leadership Unlimited (LULU): Kay Daniels shares profound insights on building a lasting legacy by unlocking leadership consciousness and living with eternity in view.
  5. Pastor Sam Adeyemi – Parables of Leadership: Adeyemi uses practical parables to demonstrate how leaders can leave behind an enduring impact through service, integrity, and vision.

Prayer Focus:

  • Thank God for the gift of life and the opportunity to leave a meaningful legacy.
  • Pray for wisdom to live with eternity in mind and to impact others positively.
  • Ask for the grace to finish your course like Paul, with a testimony of faithfulness.

Birthday Tribute by Kay Daniels

Today, as I reflect on my journey and celebrate another year of God’s faithfulness, I am reminded of the words of Psalm 48:14: “For this God is our God for ever and ever: He will be our guide even unto death.” Indeed, God has been my guide, my strength, and my ever-present help. Every milestone in my life is a testament to His enduring love and unfailing promises.

Isaiah 48:17 declares: “Thus says the Lord, your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: ‘I am the Lord your God, who teaches you to profit, who leads you by the way you should go.’” These words resonate deeply as I acknowledge that every success, every lesson learned, and every impact made has been orchestrated by His divine hand. He has not only led me but has also taught me to walk in purpose, aligning my life with His eternal plan.

As I celebrate this day, I give glory to God for His grace in enabling me to walk paths I never imagined and to influence lives in ways I never thought possible. My prayer is that my life continues to reflect His glory, that every decision and action becomes a melody of praise unto Him.

To those who have walked this journey with me, I am deeply grateful. Together, we continue to build a legacy rooted in faith, love, and kingdom purpose, knowing that “Great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised” (Psalm 48:1).

May this new year be one of greater alignment with His will, deeper revelations of His purpose, and expanded opportunities to serve His kingdom. I am confident that He who has begun this good work will perfect it, to His glory and for His praise, forever and ever.

To God alone be all the glory!

Leave your birthday wishes for Kay Daniels in the comment section. 

Tuesday, January 28, 2025

Day 28: Reflection and Prayer

 Day 28: Reflection and Prayer

  • Writeup: Reflect on how you can develop these skills further. Commit to empowering others in your leadership.

Monday, January 27, 2025

Day 27: Empowering Others

 Day 27: Empowering Others2 Timothy 2:2, Proverbs 11:25

  • Writeup: Leadership is about empowering and equipping others to succeed.
  • Complementary Reading: Hero Maker by Dave Ferguson.

Sunday, January 26, 2025

Day 26: Handling Criticism and Conflict

 Day 26: Final Day of Prayer and Fasting

Handling Criticism and ConflictProverbs 15:1, Proverbs 16:32

  • Meditation: Leaders must address conflict with grace and resolve criticism with humility.

  • Complementary Reading: Dare to Lead by BrenĂ© Brown.

The Boy She Couldn’t Keep, The Love She Couldn’t Find

Amina was only eighteen, but she already knew the weight of attention. Her phone never stopped buzzing, her social media overflo...